Influence of Emotional Intelligence on Conflict Resolution Styles in Middle Adulthood Marriages

Abstract

The following themes were found to be essential for a successful and long-lasting marriage: patience, compatibility, taking the good in things, spending time getting to know one another, and giving the partnership time. The role of the husband was also noted, including that of a friend and companion, one of support and responsibility sharing, a man of commitment, open and honest communication, and patient listening. This category also included age and maturity, children, respect for parents, space, complementarily, joint families, adjustment and compromise, time spent connecting, sexual fulfillment, and complementarily. Different backgrounds and problematic expectations (unrealistic expectations, resistance to change, trouble accepting difference and making comparisons, maintaining relationship) were highlighted as variables that can be detrimental to a healthy marriage. Apart from what was previously mentioned, other factors that were discussed included ego, finances, women’s economic independence, work-life balance stress, extramarital affairs, parental influence and control, and loyalty to the family of origin. Positive emotions such as respect, emotional security and trust, understanding, emotional awareness (awareness of one’s own feelings, awareness of others’ feelings, empathy), using emotions, emotional management (managing one’s own emotions, managing emotions of others, anger management), motivation and enthusiasm, personal insight, and taking responsibility were identified as themes that highlight aspects of emotional intelligence in marriage The study’s primary implication is that counselors and therapists can use the results for remedial, preventive, and promotional work, such as supporting troubled couples, providing premarital counseling to individuals, and helping dating couples increase the likelihood of a happy marriage. The study’s main drawback was its limited sample size, which restricts how broadly the findings may be applied.  Furthermore, a more in-depth analysis of demographic factors and emotional intelligence in relation to married partnerships was not possible. Using qualitative methodologies, future study in the subject of marital relationships should explore the evolving dynamics of Indian marriages.